Why men hate shopping |
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But if there’s one thing that sends divorce lawyers everywhere running for the nearest Mercedes dealership, it’s Going Shopping Together. Let’s stop wishing this one away. We can handle the truth if we can only find the courage to face it - retail parks are from Mars, shopping malls are from Venus. Retail parks sell electronic goods, car parts and DIY stuff, shopping malls present an infinite vista of ingeniously identical shoe shops. Mr Retail Park can have blown his monthly salary on something noisy and be back home playing with it before Ms. Shopping Mall has got done fondling culottes she wouldn’t be seen dead in a ditch with. But man cannot live on the fruits of retail parks alone. Actually, there’s one kind of man who can: The Investment Banker in his late forties. In off-duty moments, he looks frankly rather comic in M&S leisurewear bought by his wife, but he hasn’t set foot in a clothes shop since the 80s, and we envy him that. The rest of us, however, must either buy clothes or mug someone our size. If only to keep our streets safe therefore, we need shopping malls for men. Since existing facilities are laughably inadequate, I’d like to give the retail industry a few pointers:
I do not want my car park to be identified by a colour, a letter, a number or a cute name. It’s an offence against machismo. I can find my way back to my car unaided. If, due to a sharp blow to the head or something, I am unable to do so, I will steal someone else’s car rather than admit failure. Inside the mall: With respect to the walkways between shops, I do not require, have never required, and will not require at any time in the future:
Really, it’s OK, I can do without. I just need room to walk, that’s all. For this reason, I would like the management to decree that for four hours per week, children, old people, pushchairs, wheelchairs, groups of more than two people, rectangular tartan shopping trolleys, crutches, walking sticks and indecisive people are banned. If this period happens to fall between midnight and 4am on Sundays, I will be more than happy to alter my schedule so as to take advantage of it.
Stores: I don’t want more than six stores. I want these six stores between them to stock everything I will ever need. If they don’t have clothing in my size, I want the right to eviscerate the manager with a red hot poker. Also, I want clothes I can wear this afternoon, not ones to suit the weather we’ll be having in nine months time. We’re on the same page here? Great.
should be escorted courteously to a side office and quietly beheaded. Don’t bother printing a receipt. Not needed. It will not survive the trip back to the car park. If I pay by plastic, I also do not want a second piece of paper that informs the guy who empties the bin of my credit card number. Refunds? Forget it. If your product fails so badly that I can be arsed to come back and argue the point, it won’t be to get my money back, it will be to see the offending item pass through the sales assistant’s digestive system. OK, it’s safe to come out now, I’ve finished. And I really don’t think that was a lot to ask for in exchange for collaring 50% of the retail market. But what about the other 50%? What about the beings with ovaries? Sorry. Can’t help you there. Maybe you could try 80,000 telephone kiosk sized boutiques, each selling a single item that nobody wants at a 3% discount – but frankly I’m just guessing here. Good luck. I’ve a hunch that lot will be really hard to please. Suggest your favorite shopping mall, email Nigel. |